I think I need some dating tips from men. I don't really know how to ask my questions, so I'll just list them and see if anyone can help me with the answer. PLEASE!

1) After I go to dinner with a guy on a first date and he takes me to the proverbial beach, should I make out with him?

2) If I do make out with him, and things get a bit HOT, will he think I'm too loose if I give him the kind of pleasure he's seeking?

3) If he then does not call me or contact me, should I just forget him and move on? Or am I allowed to question what happened since we had such instant chemistry?

I'm totally confused. How am I supposed to act? Let me start again.

4) After I go to dinner with a guy on a first date and he takes me to the beach, do I play hard to get and refuse to even kiss him? Even if I want to?

5) What do men want? I think that's the $64,000 question!!!!!

So there's my questions. Haven't dated in a while and can't seem to get it right. Please help! Dating is SO confusing.